TheBetter Ever After Podcastis for lifelong learners looking to live a happier and healthier life and find greater fulfilment in every day. If you have a growth mindset, believe that you are a work in progress and have a desire to continue to learn, grow and improve, achieving this starts with optimizing our mindset and rituals. Every week we will provide you with strategies to improve your mindset, health, routines and everything else that goes into getting better each week
Ep 018 – It Isn’t Schadenfreude, It’s Perspective.
Ever had a really big zit that you can’t stop obsessing over!? It is a weird example, but whether it is zits or other challenges in our lives, both big and #firstworldproblems, it is easy to get tunnel vision and stuck in your own perspective.
We thankfully live in a world where a lot of the challenges that we face are the type that our great-grandparents would have killed to have. Yet, our biology and brain do not care. Our problems are our problems and it can become difficult to keep things in perspective in the grand scheme of life.
In this episode, we discuss why scheduling and forcing yourself to regularly adopt other perspectives beyond your own immediate one can make you more empathetic and might add a deep sigh of gratitude and a smile to your day.
It is a heavier episode of the BEAP but I think it might make a huge difference for your day-to-day mindset and your life.
Ep.017 – How To End Midday Fatigue And Work A 12 Hour Day While Feeling Great
If you are dead at the end of the day or feel that need for coffee in the mid-afternoon, you are not alone. This is a problem that plagued me for years and judging by the Starbucks line at 2 pm, many others.
I have conquered this and I want to share the simple ritual with you: I take a 15-minute nap!
But it isn’t the “what” that it is important, it is the mindset and “why” that motivates me to do it that is vital. In this podcast, we discuss the evolutionary and biological reason why you can’t work straight 9am-5pm (or 9pm) and function even close to your best. This episode could be the key to crushing your midday fatigue, improving your performance and happiness at work and be able to work a 12 hour day while feeling great.
To improve your daily habits, rituals, processes and for some practical tips on scheduling more rest in your day:
It is so challenging to decide what is healthy and good for you and what is not. High carb, low carb, no carb? What are you to do? In this podcast, we discuss four simple principles that will fulfil 90% of the requirements of a healthy diet that will deliver the nutrients that your body needs.
Diets can actually “work” in the short term but are rarely sustainable. In the traditional sense, diets are those, often crazy, quick fixes we use to lose weight for a wedding, to get the beach body for summer or that we start in January.
Instead, a set of principles that guide your eating will give you a strategy that will serve you over a lifetime and give you the best chance to reach the health, and yes weight, that you want. I think that this set of strategies and the mindset that informs them could be a game changer for reducing any stress around food, for improving your health and for finding foods that you love to eat.
Download our FREE Fundamental Fuel Curriculum for more and to get the 11 strategies that will optimize your nutrition and give you all that your body needs.
Ep.015 – The Mindset That Will Help You Achieve Your Biggest (Health) Goals And Enjoy The Process Of Doing It
Imagine how much easier life would be if you knew you couldn’t fail. Our big (health) goals like weight loss or running a race would be so less stressful if we knew that success was guaranteed.
It is SO easy to get stuck in “The Gap” between where you are and where you want to be. “The Gap” is filled with anxiety, frustration and a worry that you won’t get to your destination and won’t be successful. In this episode, we discuss how a little mental jujitsu and adopting a new mindset that focuses on the process instead of the outcome, can improve your chances of reaching your health goals and ensure that you enjoy the journey of getting there.
To improve your daily habits, rituals and processes:
Ep.014 – Less FOMO = More Happy. How I Am (working on) Banishing Fomo From My Life And Some Strategies To Do IT
Being sick in the summer is the absolute worst. Everyone else is out enjoying the sun and you are stuck inside feeling miserable.
The level of “fear of missing out” or FOMO is always high in these situations. But FOMO isn’t just an issue for when you are sick: it creeps into our lives all the time and can sometimes be very detrimental to our happiness and enjoyment. In this episode, I discuss my experience with FOMO, what I think the root cause of it is, how to address it, and why exposure to the highly curated lives of others on Instagram does much more harm than good for your mindset.
Ep.013 – Getting The Best Version Of You Out The Door
If you want more day-to-day consistency in your energy, performance at work and want to show the world the best version of yourself and what you are REALLY like every day, than this episode is going to deliver major value.
We can all think of a scenario where we acted in a way that we later regretted and that seemed completely incongruent with our values and who we really are. Whether it is recovering from waking up on the wrong side of the bed, or just ensuring that what you say and do is something in line with your deepest values, using a few simple morning rituals can make all of the difference.
In this podcast, we talk about the strategies that I and some of the world’s top performers use to optimize their mindset and prime their body so that the best version is ready for the day ahead.
For more specific strategies and tools, check out our Free RESET / RECOVERY Curriculum E-book: http://dralexritza.com/reset-curriculum/
Ep.012 – How To Work A 60 Hour Work Week And Keep Your Sanity And Health
Are you busy and tired? Odds are, “YES!”. Even if you don’t work a 60+ hour week and feel that your energy is “okay”, I imagine you would love to have more energy, get better sleep, get sick less and generally feel better. In this podcast, I share the strategies and rituals that allowed me to work a 60 hour work week and maintain my health and sanity by optimizing my body’s ability to recover.
Get the workbook to develop your own strategies like how to build a sound sleep routine, how to better manage your time and energy and what else you can do to feel amazing when you wake up and at 2:00 in the afternoon.
Ep.011 – Working Out Is Not What Makes You Fitter. Why The Mindset Of WOK HARD. RECOVERY HARD Is The Path To Getting Better Each Week
Exercise immediately makes you less healthy and damages the body. It is the body’s response and adaption to the exercise that improves strength, endurance and your health! But, the improvement part of working out, like life, can only happen if we create the right environment and circumstances for this growth, adaptation and recovery to occur. The Work Hard, Play Hard mindset sabotages this. This week we discuss how changing your mindset to focus more on rest and recovery can help you reach your goals faster without being so tired all the time.
Ep.010 – Obama, Malala, Buffet, Brene And You Go For Coffee…How Curating Your ‘Tribe Of Five” Effects Your Mindset And Life
Imagine if you regularly hung out with the world’s most prominent thought leaders! You might find yourself getting a little smarter, more empathetic, understanding, financially savvy and richer with every date! The people we spend the most time with has a direct impact on our beliefs, how we act and who we become. The funny thing is, the internet allows you to hang out with these people every day and it would have a dramatic impact. This episode: how curating your virtual tribe can help you reach your goals
Ep.009 – STOPPING Negative Self-Talk & The Trick I Use To Do It
Having high expectations of yourself can lead to awesome successes. But, when you fail to hit those expectations it is easy to get down on yourself; that your current failure is your future. Failure is a part of life but negative self-talk makes it joyless, hurts our confidence and creates a vision that is far from reality. In this podcast, I talk about my own struggle with this issue and the tricks and mindset that I have used to make “failures” more enjoyable and find greater self-compassion.
Ep.008 – IS THE SEARCH FOR “MARGINAL GAINS” MAKING YOU LESS HEALTHY?
If you are a professional athlete you dedicate your life to being the very best at one thing. Marginal gains are the difference between champions and “also ran”.
But if you just want to be healthier, feel better, live longer and still perform at your best, the quest for marginal gains is likely holding you back. Why the mindset of “Jack of all health trades” is really the key to better health, happiness and fulfilment.
E-mail me if you would your free Health Curriculum Checklist to see where you are searching for marginal gains and what a gold-standard health routine looks like [ firstname.lastname@example.org ]
Ep.007 – Don’t Start With The Double Black Diamonds Runs: Why Mobility & Core Work Should Be Your Biggest Focus
You would never think about doing a ski run that is well beyond your capabilities because the health risk is obvious. There are fundamental skills that are required for skiing and all sports: the gym and movement of the body, in general, is no different.
In this podcast, we discuss why 95% of us should be focusing mostly on mobility and core strength as part of reaching our health goals whether it is weight loss, strength or just looking better.
Download the MOVE Curriculum if you need help figuring out how to strengthen the core, mobilizing your joints, protecting your spine and reaching your physical goals.
THIS WEEK’S CHALLENGE: Make core and mobility work part of your every day for 5-10 minutes
Get started with some of these mobility drills that are part of our MOVE Curriculum
Ep.006 – How Massage Actually Works And Why Everyone Should Be Foam Rolling
Foam rolling has gained massive popularity in certain circles but yet the underlying mechanism of action is still poorly understood by practitioners and fans alike. A brief summary of the science of foam rolling and what it tells us about how massage therapy actually works. Hint: it has nothing to do with “scar tissue”.
How to foam roll:
How to mobilize your joints and strengthen the core
Ep.005 – What Is The Point Of Being “Healthy” In The First Place
If you find it difficult to make decisions about your health you are not alone! We are bombarded with different fads, diets and crazy sounding things to make us “healthier” that might actually do the opposite. In this podcast we discuss what the purpose of creating health actually is and how changing this mindset can make health decisions so much simpler.
THIS WEEK’S CHALLENGE: What is your “WHY” for your health and your goals
This week I would encourage you to contemplate what your long-term goals are for your health. Be specific. It might be something like running a marathon at 80 or being physically fit enough to go for a walk with a loved one. I would encourage you to set the goal as lofty as you can but only if you genuinely desire to be able to do it because the next step is mapping out the work it is going to take to get there.
Think about what your Health Routine would have to look like over the next “X” number of years and decades to help you achieve this goal. What is your nutrition, recovery and daily movement going to have to look like? If you know the answer then begin to plan out the necessary routines and strategies to get there. If you need help, I recommend that you consult a professional (dietician, physician, physiotherapist, me, etc) that can give you the knowledge, skills and maybe makeover required to map towards your goals.
I encourage you to check out the three Health Curriculums that we provide to our chiropractic patients to help you establish better strategies to fulfil the requirements for your health, which are likely similar to those needed to achieve your big goals.
NUTRITION AND WHAT THE HECK YOUR BODY NEEDS TO BE HEALTHY: FUEL CURRICULUMDOWNLOAD
Ep.004 – People “Buy Your WHY”, So What Is Your Mission Statement You’re Selling?
Companies like Apple and Starbucks spend thousands of dollars to craft their mission statement so that they know what their direction and purpose is and that their employees and customers are further inspired to be apart of their tribe.
In this episode, I discuss why having a personal mission statement can make all the difference in improving your day-to-day consistency, your relationships at work and home, avoiding those “I can’t believe I did that moments”, and for ultimately ensuring that you make an impression on people and are remembered for the traits that you would like to be remembered for.
My best episode yet and I think you are going to get a ton of value from it
THIS WEEK’S CHALLENGE: Develop your Mission Statement
This is a challenging and deeply introspective task. It is not easy but can be incredibly fun and rewarding.
Start by thinking about what is most important to you in your life – your deepest held values – and start to write them down. This is off 200 core values will likely help you find the right words. Based off your list, begin to craft a couple of sentences that use your core values to express an outcome. If a core value you would like to be part of your mission statement is “family”, you might write something like “I want to be the best possible father/mother/brother/sister/etc. by ___insert intention based off other values on your list __ _. Write a few of these sentences out by using the values from your list and then begin to mold them together into one succinct sentence or paragraph.
A resource I HIGHLY recommend using and taking the time to read is HERE. Working through this fantastic manual will provide great insight into your life and will help you develop your mission statement.
My mission statement reads as follows: To improve the health and lives of my family and community by educating and inspiring others to be their best in all aspects of life.
I know I said not to share it but if you would like to drop me a line with yours, I would be happy to read it and keep it on the “hush-hush”
I also recommend that you read and watch all the Simon Sinek you can get if you are looking for some inspiration and finding your why.
Ep.003 – The Mindset Of Looking At Everything In Life As A Choice
We always remember the big choices in life like saying “yes” to marriage or quitting a job. But I think it is the small daily choices that we make, and in some cases don’t, that have a greater impact on the outcome of our lives. In this podcast, I discuss why having a mindset of making more active choices in all parts of your life is the key to getting out of old habits and being in greater control of what happens to you.
THIS WEEK’S CHALLENGE: Choose one situation or scenario that you normally react or act in a way that is different than how you would like. It might be an interaction with your kids, your partner, a coworker, OR how you react and judge yourself, or just your own behaviour – whatever it is, choose to act and react better in this case. Write it down and practice it for one week. The goal is not to be perfect but to be conscious and make active choices about how you act and react.
I would love to hear how you did on social or in an e-mail!
Ep.002 – You are hardwired to keep getting better
Your brain is NOT like a computer. It can change, grow and heal itself, and it not a finished product with set limits. What our knowledge about neuroplasticity tells us about our body’s capacity to change, grow and improve throughout an entire life and how you can hack your own biology to change your mindset and life for the better.
BOOK: The Brain That Changes Itself – Norman Doidge – On Amazon Here
Cool neuroplasticity videos:
Ep.001 – The GROWTH mindset and how it determines success
Einstein, Jordan, Oprah, Darwin and others are not legends because they were born that way. The difference between “success” and “failure” can come down almost entirely to your mindset. Learn how the GROWTH mindset is the key to greater achievement, happiness and fulfilment and why having one will make you love this podcast.
SHOW NOTES & CONTENT:
BOOK: Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol Dweck – On Amazon Here
Test your mindset: https://mindsetonline.com/testyourmindset/step1.php
Ep.000 – What a “midlife” crises at 27 taught me
How I hit my “rock bottom” just months after getting my dream job and the journey I took to improve my situation from the inside out. The books, podcasts, lessons and strategies that helped me develop my growth mindset and change my life.
SHOW NOTES & CONTENT
PODCASTS: The Tim Ferriss Show, Inside The Champions Mind
BOOKS: Start With Why (Simon Sinek), The War Of Art (Steven Pressfield), Ryan Holiday (The Obstacle is the Way, Ego Is The Enemy), Man’s Search For Meaning (Victor Frankl), Seth Godin (anything), Tony Robbins (anything)